Steve,
I've been meaning to tell you how much I admire your
ability to make people feel at ease. There have been
several times that I've seen you step in and help resolve
disputes between your co-workers, and I want you to know
how much I appreciate that. Your talents as a peacemaker
are a valuable part of your skill package, and I'm
convinced that we're probably underutilizing those skills
in your current position. Frankly, I've often thought you
could have a brilliant future as an arbitrator if you
ever chose to go that direction, and I've occasionally
wondered why you've never pursued it.
"I also appreciate the fact that you're the first
one here each morning and that you never complain about
the long hours. I wish all my employees had your
attitude.
"The problem I'm facing today is that your current
job description requires a skill package that's
considerably different from yours, even though I consider
you to be a highly skilled and extremely valuable
employee. I feel like I've got the right person, but in
the wrong job, and there's just not a position in the
company that fits your skills right now.
"Steve, I'm convinced that you've got a bright
future, but this company isn't the right place for you.
Even though it may not feel like it today, some day
you're going to thank me for forcing you to find the
wonderful job that I'm certain is out there waiting for
you. (Handing envelope across the desk.) I've prepared a
glowing letter of recommendation and enclosed it with
your final paycheck. I'm convinced that any company with
a job opening that requires a person of your skills is
going to call and thank me for making you available.
(Now standing up with hand outstretched for a final
handshake.) Some day, I believe you'll thank me,
too."
Firing with compassion is easier on the employee and it's
easier on you. The only thing less pleasant than being
the boss who has to fire an employee is being the
employee fired by a boss who needs to feel justified in
letting you go. How might Steve have felt if his boss had
dismissed him in the traditional way? "Steve, this
is the third month in a row you've missed your sales
goal. Frankly, I believe you could have made those goals
if you hadn't spent so much time sticking your nose where
it didn't belong. Sometimes I think you're more
interested in making sure everyone likes you than in
doing your job. You blew the Kowalski deal and you
dropped the ball on the McMasters account. You just don't
have the eye of the tiger, boy.
You don't have the killer instinct. I'm afraid I'm gonna
have to let you go. You've been a real disappointment.
Here's your final paycheck. Clean out your desk."
Few days in life feel as bleak as the day one is fired
from a job. Why make a difficult time harder than it has
to be? Even the worst employee has a few positive traits
you can highlight during the termination. Why not let him
leave with his dignity intact? Why not let him feel okay
about having been "the right person in the wrong
job"? It certainly makes it easier for the employee
to go home and tell the family what's happened, and it
doesn't cost you a dime. |