The only
alternative to working together is working against. When
someone is working against you it is not always obvious.
Things take a little longer to get done, but you're not
sure why. People forget to do things. More often than not
lack of cooperation shows up through lethargy, through
not being bothered, through lack of interest. Others will
not put themselves out for you.
People don't cooperate because they're not with you. More
than likely they're not with you because they don't think
you're with them. "Why should I bother with him? He
doesn't bother with me except when he wants
something."
The Boss seeks cooperation and gets it. He gets it
because he's with his people, not just in the task that
has to be performed today, but in pursuing their
interests, supporting them, putting himself out for them.
The Boss co-operates with his people in helping resolve
their problems, and in return they cooperate with him.
It's a two-way process, each side putting itself out for
the other. You can't expect people to cooperate with you
if you don't cooperate with them.
The Boss therefore always sets the example and takes the
initiative in cooperating. He doesn't wait until he wants
something and then ask for cooperation. In cooperating
the Boss will always show willingness; he'll never throw
up excuses and pretend it's all too difficult. He'll go
out of his way to cooperate, to help the other person
with whatever he or she wants.
Make a list of the twenty people with whom you have to
work most closely. Then rank them in order of
cooperativeness. Forget the top ten, they're not a
problem. Now look critically at the ten who are least
cooperative and ask yourself why. If your answers are all
to do with them, take another look at the lower list and
ask your self, "Is their lack of cooperativeness
perhaps because they don't think I cooperate with
them?" Be ruthlessly self-critical; you might learn
a lot and help your self, and them. |